
Most organisations conduct exit interviews because they feel they should, and it goes something like this: the departing employee answers generic questions, HR files the notes somewhere, and nothing changes.
But when done properly, exit interviews represent one of the most valuable sources of honest feedback available to any organisation. People leaving have little incentive to maintain polite fictions about what actually happens in your business - so why not take advantage of the opportunity to get some subjective feedback? Let’s take a closer look.
Current employees filter feedback through concerns about career progression, team relationships, and manager reactions. Even in psychologically safe environments, there's natural hesitancy around complete candour.
People on their way out calculate things entirely differently. They've already made their decision; they're not protecting future opportunities within the organisation; the political considerations that shape everyday workplace conversations no longer apply. This creates unusual conditions for genuine insight into what's actually happening beneath the surface of your culture.
The challenge isn't getting leavers to talk - it's asking the right questions and actually doing something with what you learn.
Generic questionnaires produce generic responses. "What did you enjoy most about working here?" and "Do you have any suggestions for improvement?" won't reveal much beyond platitudes.
Better questions dig into specifics. What would need to change for you to have stayed? Not hypothetically - what specific, concrete changes would have altered your decision? When did you start seriously considering leaving? What triggered that shift?
Ask about the complete employee lifecycle - which stages worked well, where things broke down, what moments mattered. Where did the employee experience match what was promised during recruitment? Where did it diverge?
Push on cultural realities versus stated values. "We say we value work-life balance. Did your experience reflect that?" Direct questions about the gap between what the organisation claims and what it delivers often surface uncomfortable truths that current employees won't voice.
Not the person's direct manager. That relationship, however positive, still carries too much baggage for complete honesty. Even departing employees moderate their feedback to people they've worked closely with.
Not someone completely disconnected from the business either. Exit interviews conducted by external HR consultants or automated surveys miss the nuance and follow-up questions that reveal deeper patterns.
Someone from HR or People team who understands the business context but sits outside the immediate reporting line works best. They need enough organisational knowledge to ask informed follow-up questions but enough distance that the leaver feels comfortable speaking freely.
The standard approach - conducting the exit interview during the notice period - captures people at a peculiar moment. They're mentally transitioning out whilst still showing up to work. They might be trying to finish projects, train replacements, maintain relationships they'll need as references.
Consider a follow-up conversation three to six months after departure. People who've settled into new roles often have clearer perspective on what their previous organisation got right and wrong. The immediate emotional charge of leaving has faded. They've experienced different cultures and can make genuine comparisons.
This requires more effort - tracking down people who've left, persuading them to spare time for an organisation they no longer work for. The quality of insight typically justifies the investment.
One person leaving because they felt micromanaged tells you something about that person's experience. Ten people over eighteen months all describing similar experiences tells you something about your management culture.
Exit interview analysis should look for themes across departures. Are people from particular teams leaving at higher rates? Do certain managers lose staff disproportionately? Are there consistent complaints about specific processes, policies, or cultural issues?
The patterns reveal systemic problems that individual performance management or team interventions won't fix, and can make creating workplaces where people truly thrive materially possible.

Here's where most organisations fail. They gather extensive exit interview data, recognise troubling patterns, express concern in leadership meetings, then do essentially nothing.
Collecting feedback without action does more harm than not collecting it at all. It confirms to remaining employees that leadership either doesn't understand or doesn't care about problems they're experiencing. Word gets around about what leavers said and what changed - or didn't.
Meaningful action doesn't mean implementing every suggestion. It means visibly addressing systemic patterns. If exit interviews consistently highlight lack of development opportunities, what changes to learning programmes, career frameworks, or promotion processes will you make? If work-life balance emerges as a theme, what shifts in expectations, workload distribution, or flexible working will you introduce?
Communicate what you've learned and what you're changing. "We've noticed in exit interviews that many people felt unclear about progression paths. Here's what we're doing about it." This demonstrates that feedback matters and creates accountability for follow-through.
Not every departure is amicable. Some people leave angry, burned out, or after performance issues. Should you still conduct exit interviews?
Yes, though perhaps with different expectations. People who had negative experiences still provide valuable data about what isn't working. Their feedback might be less balanced, but it often highlights genuine problems that more satisfied employees tolerate rather than address.
The key is contextualising feedback appropriately. One person who was performance-managed out describing terrible management might reflect their specific situation. Multiple people with strong performance records describing similar issues suggest the problem runs deeper.
Exit interviews shouldn't exist in isolation. Compare what leavers say with engagement survey results, retention patterns, promotion rates, and other people metrics.
Do engagement surveys show high satisfaction whilst exit interviews reveal deep frustration? That gap suggests current employees aren't being honest in surveys - which itself is valuable information about psychological safety.
Do certain demographic groups leave at higher rates whilst describing different cultural experiences in exit interviews? That might reveal inclusion issues that broader surveys miss.
Exit interview insights accumulate value over time. Year one might reveal problems. Year two shows whether interventions worked. Year three demonstrates whether cultural change is embedded or regressed.
Organisations serious about culture track exit interview themes longitudinally, looking at how patterns shift as strategy, leadership, and market conditions evolve. This long-term view separates temporary frustrations from enduring cultural issues.
The goal isn't eliminating all departures - some turnover is healthy. The goal is understanding why people leave and whether those reasons reflect the culture you actually want to build.